Cost of Child Care for Single Mothers

More than 11 million children younger than age five are in some form of child care in the United States and parents pay a significant portion of their income for child care.

Child care is the biggest expense for many parents with young children, ahead of housing and food. Although the federal government provides some child care subsidies for low-income parents, the reality is that parents still pay a significant portion of their income for child care.

And the growing costs have put a tremendous strain on their budgets, especially for those with two or more children. In most states, the average cost of center-based infant care exceeds 30% of median income for single mothers. 1

Massachusetts is the most unaffordable state for single mother families, with full-time center-based infant care costing nearly 70% of their income. Affordability is a comparison of cost against state median income for a single mother family.

Top 10 Least-Affordable States for Center-Based Infant Care in 2020 #

STATE Average Annual Cost Cost of Care
Massachusetts $22,577 69.2%
California $16,452 56.3%
New York $16,588 53.9%
Washington $17,364 53.4%
Illinois $15,325 52.0%
Indiana $13,241 49.3%
New Jersey $16,471 49.1%
Michigan $12,979 48.9%
Connecticut $15,808 47.2%
Rhode Island $13,780 45.2%
Vermont $13,915 45.1%

The table above shows that the cost of child care as a percentage of their income is simply too high. In fact, in most states, one year of infant day care in a center is more expensive than a year of public college.

Even in less expensive states, single mothers likely couldn't afford the cost of child care at all. Not when they have to spend one third of their monthly income on child care expenses.

Tables below show the ranking of least affordable states for single mothers with a 4-year-old and a school-age child. The states were ranked from least affordable to most affordable, based on the cost of care compared to state median income for a single mother family.

Top 10 Least-Affordable States for Center-Based Care for a 4-Year-Old in 2020 #

STATE Average Annual Cost Cost of Care
Massachusetts $16,781 51.4%
Michigan $11,086 41.8%
New York $12,844 41.7%
Vermont $12,835 41.6%
Washington $13,404 41.2%
New Jersey $13,367 39.9%
Illinois $11,605 39.4%
Nebraska $11,440 39.2%
South Carolina $9,932 39.0%
Connecticut $13,052 38.9%

Massachusetts's child care, averaging about $16,700 a year, is among the most expensive states to keep your 4-year-old kids in day care here. Michigan is close behind.

Top 10 Least-Affordable States for a School-age Child in a Center in 2020 #

STATE Average Annual Cost Cost of Care
California $14,399 59.4%
Alabama $7,280 43.5%
Nebraska $8,580 39.2%
Michigan $7,706 38.8%
Ilinois $7,875 35.6%
South Carolina $6,600 34.6%
Washington $7,515 30.8%
New Hampshire $7,815 29.8%
New York $6,720 29.1%
Rhode Island $6,240 27.3%

California tops the least affordable list for before-/after-school care for a school-age child with 59.4% of the families’ income paying for child care. Alabama, Nebraska, Michigan, and Illinois round out the top five.


  1. Child Care Aware®, Parents & The High Cost of Child Care: 2020 Report. State rankings do not include the District of Columbia.
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